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From cancer to a second chance.
One surgery changed more than the weight.

The story of Mei-Shu and her husband

Mei-Shu's procedure SASI Husband's procedure Gastric bypass Weight lost 40+ kg HbA1c 8.9 → normal
112 kg
peak weight during treatment
HbA1c 8.9
diabetes diagnosed before surgery
SASI / Bypass
different procedures for each
Full recovery
blood sugar, sleep, weight all improved

This isn't just a weight loss story.
It's a story about cancer, a marriage proposal, a do-not-resuscitate form
and a husband who chose to go under the knife not because he had to,
but because he wanted to understand what his wife had gone through.

Before she turned thirty, Mei-Shu's life was steady. A normal weight, a regular rhythm. She went for her routine Pap smear, the kind everyone is told to do.

The results came back. It was cancer.

In the silence of the consultation room, Mei-Shu's hands were trembling as she signed the do-not-resuscitate form. She had given up.

That was the moment her husband walked in.

At the bedside

He held her tight and refused to let her go.
Then he asked her to marry him.

Those words ("marry me") were the only thing that pulled her back from the edge.

She survived. But surviving the cancer was only the beginning of another fight.


After the diagnosis, she chose a medication-based treatment path, to control the cancer, and to preserve the possibility of having children. Those years of hormone treatment sent her weight climbing to 112 kg.

Eventually, the doctor gave her an unavoidable choice: switch doctors, or have her uterus and ovaries removed.

They chose the surgery.

The hope of having children closed permanently.

Her husband's answer was simple:

"Having children was never something I needed. Her health matters more."

— her husband, in his own words

But the removal wasn't the end. To prevent recurrence, she still needed ongoing hormone therapy. The weight continued to climb.

She didn't sit still. She tried everything she could find.

Unverified pills from a neighbor. Big-brand weight loss products from the TV. Extreme fasting. Days survived on water alone. Formulas advertised with German and Japanese patents. She tried every single one.

The result wasn't just failure. Heart palpitations so severe they were unbearable. Money spent, body damaged, not a single kilogram lost.

The weight brought more than physical heaviness. Job interviews where she was quietly screened out. A stranger on the MRT telling her to give up her seat, saying someone her size could surely handle standing. Customers at her husband's locksmith shop quietly wondering whether those hands could still handle a small lock cylinder.

She had always been warm and open. Slowly, she began to close herself off, not out of coldness, but to protect a self that was becoming more fragile by the day.

And her husband watched all of it, standing beside her. He accompanied her through every attempt, every disappointment, every fall back to square one. The weight of those years settled onto him too. His weight had climbed to over 100 kg as well.

Mei-Shu and her husband, each carrying over 100 kg, walked into the clinic together.


At a follow-up check, her HbA1c came back at 8.9.

The normal upper limit is 5.6. Anything above 6.5 is a diabetes diagnosis. Her number was far beyond that.

She couldn't help thinking: "Is this ever going to end?"

Diagnosis
Cervical cancer diagnosed. Drug therapy begun to preserve fertility. Weight climbed above 100 kg. Her husband proposed at her bedside, she chose to fight.
Surgery
Uterus and ovaries removed. The hope of having children closed permanently. Ongoing hormone therapy still required to prevent recurrence.
Years of trying
Every weight loss method tried. All failed. Heart palpitations, physical harm. Her husband's weight climbed past 100 kg during the years of supporting her.
Second blow
HbA1c 8.9 at follow-up. Diabetes confirmed. The decision to seriously evaluate metabolic surgery.
Turning point
Dr. Ser's single word ("Yes") made the decision. Her husband, told he didn't urgently need surgery, chose to go through it anyway.
After surgery
Mei-Shu: SASI. Husband: gastric bypass. Blood sugar returned to normal. Sleep apnea gone. 40+ kg lost. A regular customer walked into the shop and asked: "What happened to the owner?"

Mei-Shu asked Dr. Ser a question at their first consultation:

"After surgery, will the diabetes improve?"

— Mei-Shu, first consultation

Dr. Ser answered without hesitation: "Yes."

One word. That was all it took for her husband to make a decision that surprised everyone.

After all those years alongside Mei-Shu, his own weight had climbed to over 100 kg under the weight of stress and exhaustion. Both of them had walked into the clinic. Mei-Shu assumed he must need treatment too.

Dr. Ser examined him and gave an unexpected answer:

"You're a healthy overweight person. The one with the real problem is your wife."

— Dr. Ser, to her husband

In other words, he didn't urgently need surgery.

But he decided to do it anyway.

His reason:

"I can't really know what she feels. When she had cancer, I could only worry, I didn't know where it hurt. I worry about the surgery too, and if she feels unwell afterward, I won't be able to understand or feel it either… so I thought I might as well go through it myself. That way I'd truly understand how to take care of her."

— her husband, in his own words

The doctor had told him surgery wasn't urgent. He chose the operating table anyway, only so he could truly understand her, and take care of her.

Mei-Shu

"Before and after the surgery, thank you to Dr. Ser's team, for the attentiveness, the patience, and the constant presence that made it possible for me to trust myself to their care."

Her husband

"I thought I might as well go through it myself, that way I'd truly understand how to take care of her."

Mei-Shu and her husband went into surgery together.

It's worth noting: they had different procedures. Mei-Shu had SASI; her husband had gastric bypass. Dr. Ser assessed them separately and recommended what was right for each of them individually, not what was most familiar, but what was best for each patient.


Before committing to surgery, Mei-Shu did a lot of research.

She'd read through Dr. Ser's website, the procedures were explained in clear detail, and that reassured her. But what she was most concerned about wasn't the surgery itself.

It was what came after.

She had experienced cold medical care before. She knew what it felt like: the checkup ends, the treatment ends, and then you're alone. Questions go unanswered. When something feels wrong, there's no one to call. The fear at 2 a.m. is yours to carry by yourself. She didn't want to go through that again.

What she cared about most was whether someone would actually be there with her after surgery. Not a cold information sheet, someone actually staying close. Something more like a friend.

Dr. Ser's team gave her that answer. Not just the surgeon, the way the whole team treated patients: unhurried, warm, the kind of interaction that felt like talking to a friend, the kind of care that felt like family. That became one of the deciding reasons she chose to have surgery here.

What happened later confirmed she had chosen right.


After surgery, her husband adjusted to his new diet more smoothly than expected. Very little discomfort.

Until one evening, Mei-Shu accidentally gave him two rice dumplings.

He ate both of them.

They got stuck. He was rushed to the emergency room in the middle of the night.

Mei-Shu said that was the most frightening moment for her. Her husband was in the ER. She was outside, not knowing what to do, not knowing what would happen next.

Then the phone vibrated.

📱 Message notification

It was already past midnight, after 1 a.m. Dr. Ser's team kept sending messages, checking in on her, telling her what to do now, what to watch for next.

— Mei-Shu, remembering that night

She said it was in that moment she truly felt how much the team's presence mattered.

Not when everything was going smoothly. But at 1 a.m., with her husband in the ER and her alone and at a loss, someone was there.

No pre-surgery information session can give you that kind of reassurance.


One year after surgery, her blood sugar had returned to normal. The sleep apnea that had plagued her for years (the thunderous snoring that filled their nights) was completely gone. Her husband laughed and said that sometimes now he wakes up in the middle of the night disturbed by the quiet, and has to check that she's still breathing. He calls it "the silence of being healthy."

She said: "This past year I had almost no regular exercise because of work, but I still lost over 40 kilos. The physical discomfort, the psychological weight, and all those words that used to hurt me, they've fallen away, one by one."

The older neighbors who used to call them "kid brother" and "little sister" now call them "boss" and "handsome guy." A regular customer walked into the locksmith shop, looked at Mei-Shu, and asked: "Where's the big owner who used to be here? Did it change hands?"

That question was the greatest compliment of her rebirth.

The armor she had built around herself, she could finally set it down.

"I can't give you a child.
But I might be able to stay with you a little longer."

— Mei-Shu, to her husband

Weight is never a question of willpower.
It's the body saying: I need real help.

Mei-Shu spent years walking through cancer, through obesity, through every night when it felt like the suffering would never end.
If you are walking that same road
we are here.

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